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Old Dood · Mar 25, 2006, 05:48 PM // 17:48

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

Completely agree. I mean I will say sometimes I get jelous of other girls when a guy im into is oogling over them instead of me...and i know once im married I'd be deathly jelous if my man went to a strip club

But on another note like star said, its a video game. its pixels. its a computer. if the pixel boobs are jiggling - then oh well!

Trust me your husband will probably go to a Strip club with the younger guys for a Bachelor Party....And it will be real OLD to him. I haven't "enjoyed" a Strip club in 30 years. I haven't been to one in 7 years and then 5 years before that. It really does nothing for me. While they are off getting lap dances I hired that girl to rub my neck and shoulders...best $10.00 spent in my opinion.

Also never get jealous over anything....When guys are Flirting with Mrs Dood I sit back proud...I know where she is going to lay her head at night. Same with me...she doesn't get jealous over my Flirting either....

Lord Dobo · Mar 25, 2006, 06:44 PM // 18:44

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

Im going to agree that women probley pay a lot more attention to other women then men do. But part of it isn't beacuse they like to look at pretty women, at least for me its not, its more that they like to see what other women are wearing, there jewlry, there shoes, they like to get idea for themselves. If i go to the mall and i see another girl in a cute outfit, im going to look at her, not beacuse i think shes pretty but beacuse i want to get ideas for a new outfit for me.

Because, instinctively you compete. Men compete as well. My point is one of recognising truth.

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

But when you say I have to admit, if my guy was just staring at another girls boobs or butt, Then yes im going to get pissed. why? beacuse Its going to make me feel less attractive to him. When your with someone you want to feel attractive and you want to feel like in your guys eyes that you are the most beautiful person alive. Theres nothing wrong with letting your eyes wonder nessisarily, but if he was just staring or continusly looked in that direction, It would make me feel like he would rather me have that type of body.

and you might argue that what i just said is the womans fault, that she should be more confident in herself and trust that her man loves her. But a lot of times guys will go places with there girls and pay more attention to other girls then there girlfriend/wife. and the feeling of jelousy or being pissed isn't about there confidence.

Now let's note the distinction between leering and letting the eye wander. If you are on your first few dates, and the guy you are with starts leering... you've made a really bad choice and will be much happier trying again elsewhere. But if you seriously think that, when you marry, your husband will renounce his attraction to other women, and will never want to see another woman naked for the rest of his life, because it's going to hurt your feelings... well, don't get married. The marriage will be based on lies and insecurities. Every single successful marriage I've ever known has had balanced, healthy adults who understand that attraction to another isn't the same as not being attracted to their mate. Now you need to notice that I am not saying LEER at others, or ACT on attraction to others. I am saying recognise WHY anet puts pretty girls in their games. We all like to look at pretty things.

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

And there is absolutly nothing wrong with this. Just like theres no reason a man should see something wrong with a woman seeing the beauty of the male form.

ah, support.

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

What i personally think is the biggest problem, is when guys(or girls) make it seem they would rather be looking at a playboy, or checking out other people, then looking at the person they care most about. sadly, thats just how humans are. I personally don't really care if my guy would look at another girl, but if he would rather be getting off to playboy then getting off to me, Im going to feel terrible.

You contradict your other posts when you say you don't care if your guy looks at another girl. Jealousy is a matter of insecurity. People only get jealous when the feel that the behavior, in this case your guy wanting some alone time with a magazine, is a reflection on that persons worth. You won't be happy in life thinking that your man must renounce all other sources of relief. Becuase you're only going to force him to lie about his extra long bathroom breaks... what kind of relationship is that? He's going to do it, and it doesn't mean he doesn't want you, trust me he does... very much so, but he also has a certain itch at that moment that you just can't scratch.

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Originally Posted by xxSilhouette

and all of that is to a degree off-topic, considering this is about the girls in guild wars...but like others have said it's a game - the girls in guild wars are made of pixels and pretty colors - and they look good. I think the guys shoudl get this much detail myself

I wasn't the one who started talking about real women, strip club, making love not war, and all types of other thngs. That came from many sources, and is perfectly valid, because you can't talk about the girls IN guildwars without talking about the girls OUT of guildwars. I personnaly think that most of the girls in the game look rediculous, but I know exactly why there are the most common character type out there. People find them attractive. Now, the men not receiving the same attention? You are probably right, that is a truth as well, most games will put more polygons on a female character than a male one, simply because it's the female characters that sell the game. But I have to say, I run with many real world women in the game, in and out of my guild, and I have had them tell me my male characters are hot. Just got told that yesterday in fact, on my new male ritualist. A fact that I am proud of, I'm happy that she enjoys looking at my character. It's a basic instinct.

xxSilhouette, I am soooooo not trying to pick on you or start a fight, I just hear this type of thing everyday, everywhere. And the only thing it brings to my mind, is how insecure people are and how unwilling they are to stop and really reflect on the truths hidden inside. The world wiould be a better place if we recognised fact.... NOT act on them, recognise them. And there is such a thing as bad behavior, I do not condone it. But recognise the difference.

4runner · Mar 25, 2006, 07:32 PM // 19:32

well just last night while out with the boys at the Spearment Rhino here in LA, i swear to Budda himself i saw a stripper doing the Female Ranger dance, OH BOY what a Sight!!

FEmale Ranger Dance FTW!!!!!!!!!

PieXags · Mar 25, 2006, 08:18 PM // 20:18

Well I'm going to close this now. I have no idea how I missed it in the first place, apparently it had been caught before though...either way, we've got everything from "Woot!" to debates on human forms we've had many many many times in the past around here, this also isn't the first time we've had the "Look at the ranger when she fires!" thread. People are different, enough said, lets try to get over it.

-Closed-